Ending The Sexual Dark Age

For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us.

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This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year's full-resort takeover.

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Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery.

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Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016. 

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 7:14pm EDT

A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery.

Interview Guests:

Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast

Megan Allen is a sex educator friendly to all types of adult sexuality and owner of the Facebook sex education page The Downstairs. She also works at Forbidden Fruit Toys in Austin, TX and is a survivor of sexual abuse and also a victim's advocate.  

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This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook 

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:04pm EDT

A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time!

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:18pm EDT

Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:43pm EDT

Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:01am EDT

This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.

See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode.

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9th Circuit Court Rules LA Condom Mandate Doesn't Violate First Amendment

Semen Is Good For Women's Health & Helps Fight Depression

Going Off The Pill Could Affect Who You're Attracted To, Study Finds 

The Science Of Orgasms (Video from IFL Science)

Supreme Court Declines To Block Florida Same-Sex Marriages

Naked Revenge: Wife Leaves Naked Husband And Twin Sister In Parking Lot After Catching Them Cheating

BONUS: 8 Vintage Christmas Carols That Are Really All About Fucking

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Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists

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This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited.

We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity).

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A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually.

This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected.

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Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time. 

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:56pm EDT

A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging.

JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics.

JV and Shara are confirmed for Swingset Takes Desire this November. WOOHOO! Looking forward to a week of fun in the sun and sexy new friends!

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 5:04pm EDT

We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds.

This episode is available as both episode 61 of our show and episode 161 of Life On The Swingset.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 3:00pm EDT

We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very soon. Overall this episode was just a light, fun way to get back to recording. It's great to be back!

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A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing the kink back.

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Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxers who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms because of them.

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Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives.

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Helpful Books for Newbie Dominants (and submissives) (at Amazon):

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism

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Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:54am EDT

Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in.

In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned for more info on that).

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:54pm EDT

We discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 8:33pm EDT

Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being embarassed, thoughts for a girl whose younger brother asked for a pair of her panties to keep, and the possibliity of having vaginal orgasms for the first time by doing your kegel exercises so you can clamp down on your playmate.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 6:04pm EDT

Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :)

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:54pm EDT

We begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:36pm EDT

We talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup.

Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played, slave ;0)

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 5:37pm EDT

We review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:54pm EDT

Topics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you.

This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be starting a fresh year for the show. Sexualdarkage.com is now being updated daily with funny sex pics, sex and sexual health news, Shara's choice of daily hottie pics, at least one guy and one girl per day, and other fun stuff to help us put at least one smile a day on your face.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:42pm EDT

Shara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success.

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:10pm EDT

Listener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a phone sex operator.

In an effort to cut down on production time, we're releasing a virtually un-edited episode this time. Let us know what you think :)

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Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:21pm EDT

Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies.

Show Links:
Printable BDSM Checklist

Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above)
Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fields

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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-045-BDSM-Advice.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 6:00pm EDT

Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn't done anything wrong.

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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-044-Advice-Line-16-.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:00pm EDT

We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com All images re-posted with permission from After Dinner Party. For the original post plus lots of educational material on the clitoris, you can go straight to the Clitoris page, but I recommend starting with the Intro. Clitoris side view with nomenclature   Clitoris Illustration   Medical dissection drawing of the clitoris   Female Sex Organs, Highlighting The Clitoris   Drawing of sex organ homologous tissue   clitoris excitement plateau   MRI Scan, Clitoris Side View   Clitoris MRI Front View Sections

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-043-The-Clitoris.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:20pm EDT

As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.

We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s band from back in the day.

Show Links:

Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life

Tree of Shadows online

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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-042-bdsm-feminism-sexual-submission.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:07pm EDT

Listener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexually confident, indpendent women and a young lady who's not getting nearly enough cock after her wedding.

Lady of the Drake, an erotic fantasy novel from the same filthy mind that brings you this podcast, is now available wherever e-books are sold for $6.99 retail. Don't forget to step up for a 1 in 10 chance to win a limited edition signed/numbered print copy by posting a review of the book wherever you bought it, for podcast listeners only. CLICK HERE for the post on the contest.

Buy direct from Ravenous Romance (All e-book formats) for $4.99

Buy on Amazon for Kindle, $3.99

All the short stories featured in previous Audio Erotica episodes are now available for free download in all e-book formats from JV's page at Smashwords.com, and they're also available in .epub only from JV's profile at GoodReads.com

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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-041-Advice-Line-15.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:30am EDT

Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and submissives.

Be sure to check out Shara's t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex.

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Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-040-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-2.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:58am EDT

Topics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questions from two listeners on bi-curiosity and bisexuality. One is a girl attracted to other girls but unable to get off on lesbian porn, and the other is a guy who likes certain specific play with other guys but isn't sure if the label "bisexual" fits. 

We also come up with a fun t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex.

Show Links:

Vaginism on Wikipedia

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-039-Advice-Line-14.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 7:30pm EDT

The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

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Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-038-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-1.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:07am EDT

Listener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show).

Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :)

Show Links:

Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

The post that inspired Questioner's comment: Christian Blogger Claims 70% of Women Don't Deserve Orgasms.

Article from TheMarriageBed.com: What's OK/What's Not (according to the Bible)

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Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-037-Advice-Line-13.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:25am EDT

NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance.

Read this story at TwistedErotica.com

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-036-1-Audio-Erotica-A-Shalar-Is-Born.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:30am EDT

Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes with menstrual sex, BDSM mentoring and helping a submissive you're not sexually involved with find a dom, and some advice for a young woman who can't figure out how to enjoy masturbation.

Show Links:

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon)

Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Sex (At Amazon)

The Expert Guide To Advanced Anal Sex (DVD) (At Tristan's Website)

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Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-035-Advice-Line-Vol-12.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:58am EDT

Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms and finger cots for anal sex and ass play, the importance of relaxation to good ass fucking experiences, the morning after, and a bunch of other fun stuff related to butt fucking in general...including a list of surprising items removed from people's asses in hospitals.

Show Links:

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon)

Sponsored By:  AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn and a FREE sexy surprise.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-034-Anal-Sex-Ass-Play-Anal-Porn.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:20pm EDT

This quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset.  The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy who's concerned about coming out to the swing community as a bisexual.  Many thanks to Cooper, Ginger, Dylan and Shira for lending a hand on this one.

Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

Our Friends:  LifeOnTheSwingset.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-033-Advice-Quickie-Bisexual-Male-Swinging.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 6:23pm EDT

This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male stamina issues.

Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

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Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-032-Advice-Line-vol-11.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:18am EDT

We're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration.

Yeah, it's a super-sized episode.

We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger deciding what Shara gets spanked with on the air.  DING.

Show links:

Show website:  SexualDarkAge.com

Life on the Swingset

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-031-Swinging-Part-2.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 7:48pm EDT

Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the good and bad aspects of safewords in BDSM play, and some general questions regarding dominant/submissive relationships.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-030-Listener-Mail-Vol-10.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:32pm EDT

This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical nonmonogamy.  In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics we wanted to discuss, so we'll be reconvening our foursome to finish the interview in a couple weeks for Swinging Part 2.

Some of the issues we cover in this episode include: How to safely and comfortably dip a toe into swinging when you've got no idea if it's right for you, jealousy and how to make it a non-issue, avoiding common newbie mistakes, swinger parties for beginners, how to go about finding your first swinging playmates online or in real life, and the straight story on how swingers view body types in relation to choosing playmates.

Show Links:

Life on the Swingset

The Swingset on iTunes

New Ending The Sexual Dark Age group on Fetlife

Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-029-Swinging-Part-1.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:38pm EDT

Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink.

Show Links:

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon):

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The Loving Dominant

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-028-Listener-Mail-Vol-9.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:52am EDT

Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without pushing too hard.  This episode begins an arc of topics on group play, swinging, polyamory and other flavors of non-monogamy.

Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-027-Group-Sex-Basics.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 2:00am EDT

An in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight story on the Pentagon's new policy and what it means to the people who will actually be dealing with it.

 

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-026-Gays-In-The-Military.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:19pm EDT

A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on his fiance's desire to get double teamed.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-025-Listener-Mail-Vol-8.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:35am EDT

A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly. 

 

Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-024-HomophoBiSexuality.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:15pm EDT

A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky side of a "nice girl."

Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-023-Listener-Mail-Vol-7.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:07am EDT

Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-022-Sex-On-Location.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:58am EDT

Celebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications.  A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced.

Show Links:

Show Website:  Sexualdarkage.com

New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-021-Semi-Annum.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:40pm EDT

A sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the Realm of Aeodar, a publication announcement for one of J.V.'s short stories, and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from the archives.

 

Show Links:

Read "The Taking of Ariel" on TwistedErotica.com

Ravenous Romance

 

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-020-Twisted-Erotica-Taking-Of-Ariel.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:36pm EDT

A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items.

Show Links:

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Fetlife.com

J.V. on Fetlife

Shara on Fetlife

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-019-BDSM-Basics-Too.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:34am EDT

Topics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when you're not (and how it can make you want to cheat just to balance the scales) and how to deal with a guy who doesn't care if he can give his woman an orgasm.  Suprisingly, my suggestion is not to beat him unconscious with a fifteen inch dildo.

Show Links:

Coalition Against Toxic Toys: Smart Shopper's Guide

Article Discussed: Are Vaginas Troublesome for Girls With Body Image Issues?

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-018-Listener-Mail-Vol-6.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:12am EDT

A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM.  This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism.  We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak).

Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-017-BDSM-Basics-Part-1.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:25pm EDT

Topics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surgery-prep, and making music part of your sex play.

Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-016-Listener-Mail-Vol-5.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:40pm EDT

Something a little different this time, with J.V. reading an original erotic short story.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-015-Twisted-Erotica-Timing-Is-Everything.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 7:29pm EDT

It seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend.  I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in a few days once I slap my vocal cords back in line.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-014-Laryngitis-Sucks.mp3
Category: -- posted at: 8:20pm EDT

Topics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation.

Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-013-Listener-Mail-Vol-4.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 5:24am EDT

The art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs.  Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make it happy), rythm and style, why a shaved pussy will probably get licked a lot more often and a sniff test that can save you from an awkward moment.

Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-012-Cunni-Linguistics.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:08am EDT

Specific tips on making your own Dupli-Dong, a great website for learning more about the practices of BDSM, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, a sex game you might never have thought of, thoughts on age inappropriate/lolita relationships and some tips for a guy trying to get his sex life out of high school now that he's almost done with college.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-011-Listener-Mail-Vol-3.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 11:25pm EDT

A thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker.  Includes The myth that it's demeaning to women; the options to spit, swallow or wear it, how to make jizz taste better, how shaving your balls can get you blown better and more often, general blowjob tips.

Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-010-Art-of-Smoking-Pole.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 12:15am EDT

Yet another benefit to spanking the monkey for guys, advice to a woman who can climax with a guy but not alone, a listener coping with a dead relationship, and some tips on introducing BDSM to a historically vanilla sex life.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-009-Listener-Mail-Vol-2.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 1:52am EDT

The history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-008-Sex-Toys-Rock.mp3
Category: -- posted at: 10:53pm EDT

The ins, outs, ups and downs of literally taking things into your own hands.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-007-Pleasure-Thyself.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 9:33pm EDT

A quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate.  I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-006-Listener-Mail-Vol-1.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:50pm EDT

An extremely critical look at the history of religion and shame.  As a note of warning, some listeners have described this episode as a rant. 

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-005-The-Shame-Game.mp3
Category: -- posted at: 1:22am EDT

Episode 4 covers the various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity.

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-004-Love-Her-Long-Time.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 3:34am EDT

A variety of topics relating to the female orgasm are covered, from why fake orgasms are the worst thing that's ever happened to female sexuality, to how to use orgasm denial to push climaxes to new heights.

Show website:  Sexuadarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-003-Meet-The-Female-Orgasm.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 6:03am EDT

A lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies.  This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual attraction, as well as the brutal truth about the various ways you can make your cock or tits bigger if you really can't get past your obsession.  The reality is, even if you stress about the size of your dick or rack, there's a 70% chance your playmate is totally fine with it.

Podcast Website:  Sexualdarkage.com

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-002-Size-Matters.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 4:28am EDT

001 The Sexual Dark Age

Welcome to the inaugural episode of Ending the Sexual Dark Age, a lighthearted yet serious podcast dedicated to the unvarnished truth about sex in the modern world.  We're educated from an early age about everything we'll need to know as an adult, except for the gaping hole in that education regarding sex.  Every generation is left to fend for themselves, leading us to a point at which we've launched a space station, virtually mastered the atom, and gone from the phonograph to the iPod in about a hundred years...but we still have 70% of women faking orgasms.  This show aims to put a dent in that obscene statistic.

Despite what most men (and women) are led to believe, the female orgasm is far simpler than nuclear physics or mechanical engineering.  This show will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sex that your parents should have given you.  From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you'll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn't demean or coddle.  

The Sexual Dark Age has been upon us for centuries, and despite the glut of sexual imagery we're bombarded with our attitudes toward sex are just as self-destructive and backwards as they were 300 years ago.  In some cases we're worse off now, and this show aims to beat back the darkness with plain, honest talk and info about how we got here in the first place; and how to reverse the lifetime of unhealthy sexual attitudes inflicted on us by a culture too ashamed to have honest, open dialog about something we're all biologically programmed to love.

This show will typically be between 20 and 30 minutes in length depending on the topic, and new episodes will be released every 2 or 3 weeks.

Send questions, comments, requests, tirades, and insults to jvaltharas[at]gmail[dot]com, and thanks for listening.

 

Direct download: Sexual-Dark-Age-001-Introduction.mp3
Category:Sexuality -- posted at: 10:00am EDT